Relationship Abuse in Unilorin

No...It is not a fictitious work nor an imaginative reality from the perspective of the writer...It all happened in the University of Ilorin; full details of the affected and the "affectee" if am allowed to use the word, will be reserved..

The motive behind this story is not to "cast" anyone but to remind the lass out there that emotional and temper control is vital. I was once abused in a relationship about 7 years ago so I know what it must feel like, I personally think that such men should be jailed for life because it is so bad.

While keeping in my side I saw a beautiful lass whose radiance could make men forget the moon exist approaching me...She greeted me and asked; "Are you Ewatomi"..??.. I responded with a positive nod and a friendly "Yes I am"...She said and I quote "I heard you own a blog; an issue happened that knocked me down, my conscience is joggling between peace and disorder while my state of mind is bad"...She narrated her ordeal in details and I decided to bring it here for my lovely readers to judge...

Totally unexpected, her ex bf assaulted her while they were dating...TAYO, the boy behind the assault claims that he did out of self control and jealousy...We will let the readers pass a judgement on him...They have been dating for over a year and he constantly batters her. Acts ranging from physical violence, tongue lashing to emotional blackmail...It got to the peak at one point that the girl decided to tell her friends...Her friends advised her to leave the guy but she couldn't for reasons best known to her...

On an unfaithful Sunday (no blasphemy meant), after rising up to her feet to make breakfast for herself...She heard a knock on her door( it was her bf), she opened the door and let him in...They had fun and playful moments indoor till her phone rang, it was her course mate, he had called to remind her about a tutorial scheduled to hold that evening...The last words she said to the caller was "Thanks Dear"...

TAYO flaired up, yelled at her and accused her of having extra affair on the basis of using the words "Thanks Dear"...I gave her a look that read; "Are you for real..??.. She said before she could calm him down to explain three hot slaps landed on her cheek...May God guide us when considering a partner to pick...Then he threatened to tie her up and post her nudes online...Abegi unto which matter; o funny gan...

Crying and pleading soberly she managed to escape with bruises and scars...She showed me the pictures of the wounds and I concluded there are some faults in her stars...This lady is not right in the middle of "Okay" and "Fine", she is beautiful beyond fault...What specie of Goat dare lay his filthy hands on this Angel..??.., I asked myself...She took the bold step of telling the police about it and she got the guy arrested...I was about to tell her "Ki lo tun ku" - Wetin remain again in pidgin...Till I heard her say "He is badly hurt cos the police really maltreated him"...Walahi, I was dumb founded...Ko ti e ye mi...I guess she falls in the category of the relative few that can't make a valid decision with issues relating to their own personal life...I can't imagine she ever considered being his wife...She claimed she felt guilty and remorse for informing the police about it but what could she have done..??..She is a student of our school, be kind enough to express warm views and comments...